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[Nov. 25th, 2009|11:28 am] |
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Why is it that someone you meet on a Friday night might be your boyfriend on Monday, but someone who you have cared about for years might always just be that guy who is permanently in your phonebook and is introduced as your friend because you both have no idea what to call your relationship? |
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| A nigger |
[Nov. 2nd, 2009|12:02 pm] |
I've had this journal since 2002 and never had any ignorance or insults thrown my way, until yesterday.
Some guy that found my journal thru a post i made in appleiphone decided to be an ass.
Check it out http://softspokenmami.livejournal.com/37121.html
I actually had to disable comments from non-friends and the anonymous -- That's how desperate he is...to call me a nigger.
Smh. |
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| Ebay's exhausting |
[Nov. 1st, 2009|10:51 am] |
My boyfriend's always been a BlackBerry person. Now he wants an iPhone, like me, so we can play Scrabble. (I looooove word games.)
Anyway, he's still unemployed. I figured I get him one, but I'm not exactly in the position to buy him a NEW one. Actually, that's all he wants....and I can understand that. But beggars can't be choosers. He needs to be happy for whatever I can find.
But I'm SO over looking. |
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| All i ever do is complain about my boyfriend or something... |
[Oct. 19th, 2009|12:53 am] |
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He doesn't respect my privacy. Does he go thru my things? No.
He has an online life. He's a bloggger. That's fine. But he blogs about me, in detail. Way too much. The only thing he leaves out is my last name, but so what? It's really ridiculous to me. He posts my pictures. He writes about how much he loves me. And when he's upset, he tries to subliminally write something about it, but everyone that follows his blogs knows what the fuck he's referring to. I've warned him of this, and he didn't believe me. He was like, "Who's that nosy? No one cares."
Then one day, some anonymous person left a comment questioning whether he was still with me and they gave the link to my blog. He was completely shocked. Of course, I wasn't. Like I said, I warned him. Then he got defensive about it, to the anonymous commenter. And so ANOTHER anonymous commenter got him straight and told him everything I've been saying. He's been too much of an open fucking book. So don't get mad now that people are curious.
After all that, he decides he's not going to blog about his relationship anymore. Imagine how thrilled I was. But then he blogs about me again, a few weeks later. And then he goes as far as blogging about what college I went to and yadda yadda. So I had to say something.
Knowing that he knows these anonymous strangers are truly invested in our lives, why would you provide them with more info like that? And he got mad and said I missed the point. No...I really didn't. He said it wasn't a big deal. How is my privacy not a big deal? That's my fucking business. Can you not respect that?
And now he has an attitude and he's not talking.
I hate him. |
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| i miss... |
[Sep. 20th, 2009|12:47 pm] |
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i miss old lj.
the high school and undergrad days of lj.
does anyone even still call it lj?
it's ten years old now. wow.
that is all. |
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